Forget the roses and the bottle of wine. When it comes to romance, Fibro is a buzz kill!
A new survey of FM patients has found that well over half believe that chronic pain has significantly harmed their romantic relationships.
The survey of 1,228 adults in the U.S. with FM found that pain was having a widespread impact on their social life, home life, work and school attendance, and exercise habits.
Pain also took a big toll on romance. Nearly 70 percent said FM pain has affected their physical intimacy with a partner or spouse. And over half (55%) said FM had negatively impacted their romantic relationships in some way.
“Fibromyalgia has long been misunderstood, as it is a complicated disease with many different symptoms, and as a patient, I have understood the importance of differentiating between the symptoms and recognizing the impact that just one symptom – like pain – can have on your life,” said Jan Chambers, president of the National FM & Chronic Pain Association (NFMCPA).
“This survey is important for the fibromyalgia community as it underscores the need for more effective dialogue between patients and their HCPs (health care practitioners), specifically focusing on pain management, including lifestyle changes that can make a difference.”
The survey, called Functioning with Fibro, was funded by Pfizer Inc., and was conducted in collaboration with NFMCPA and the American Association of Nurse Practitioners. The survey was conducted August 9 – 23, 2013, using an email invitation and an online survey.
On average, the survey found that FM patients had more bad days than good, with the number of “flare up” days exceeding the good ones in a typical week. Daily activities most affected by FM were sleep (71%), exercise (70%) and the ability to do household chores (60%).
FM patients who work missed an average of 3 weeks of work annually (versus only 3 sick days for the average American). They were late for work an additional nine days. About a third said their professional relationships were adversely affected by FM.
Other key findings:
- 85% said pain was the #1 symptom impacting their daily life.
- 85% said they had missed important events in their life, including holidays, birthdays, vacations, and social engagements.
- 72% say they are hesitant to plan social activities out of fear they’ll have to cancel.
- 54% say it’s had a negative impact on their friendships.
- 48% say it’s had a negative impact on their family life.
FM patients were very pro-active about their treatment. Nearly half said they were currently discussing with their health care practitioner ways to improve day-to-day life. And nearly all (97%) had done something to improve their ability to live with pain, including minimizing stressful situations and setting more limits.
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